Friday, July 31, 2009

What's in the box?

Today is one of those days that reminds my staff and me that our role in the end of life issues is just as important as all the preventive care and treatment we do. In addition to our regular appointments, we have 2 euthanasias scheduled and 2 clients who had to bring in pets that had passed away at home after long illnesses. So far they have all elected to have their pets cremated privately and the ashes returned to them.

About half our clients choose this option, as opposed to a group cremation and burial. In less than a week, they will receive a small wooden box. What's in the box?

Stopping by the shelter "just to look".
Having said yes to having this pet in their lives.
The joys and challenges of puppy- and kitten-hood.
An interior re-decorator.
A mood lifter.
Enthusiastic tail wagging or purring.
Encouragement to take a walk.
A "child" who didn't grow up and go off to college.
Years of companionship.
Unconditional love.
A nonjudgmental friend.
A part of themselves.

...and ashes.

1 comment:

  1. My wife and I said goodbye to our beloved dog last night. I happened to go on your site and read your post about ashes today. It was beautiful and made me cry. Thank you for all you do, Dr. Rice.

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